Tuesday Bullets: This video cracked me in the middle of the night

 

Preface

• Again, as I have written previously, I do not hold to red pill philosophy as a worldview, but I am in agreement with some red pill philosophy and psychology.

• I am a philosopher of religion and theologian within a Reformed, biblical, position.

• I am not endorsing the worldview of either the video, content creator, or the young woman that he reviews.

• Please consider that as a philosopher of religion and theologian, I review many ideas and worldviews.

• My MPhil/PhD British theses work is filled with worldview content I did not endorse.

• The same goes for my website academic work.

• At the same time, all truth is God's truth.

• I have been considering content from this channel for a few months now. 

• I think he is basically honest and well-meaning, humanly speaking. (Acknowledging universal, fallen, corrupt, human nature, Genesis 3, Romans, as examples)

• Having reviewed some of his videos, he has theistic ideas and might embrace a form of Christianity, I do not know him personally.

• He has had multiple girlfriends which I have zero interest in as a lifestyle, and I have never pursued this in my life.

• I have zero interest in the 'pickup' lifestyle. (Pretty obvious to anyone that knows me at all, personally)

• As noted in my writing, in Christ, I am seeking, mutual, spiritual, intellectual, romantic attraction in courtship or remaining single.

• Although I absolutely struggle with sin, I have zero practical interest in pursuing any form of what the New Testament calls adultery or fornication.

• Matthew 5: 27 from the English Standard Version (ESV) 27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Video

• Beginning of the video: If by 'creep you out', a man (or woman) is breaking the law, being abusive or disrespectful to you, I would state to not willingly submit to such conduct, as opposed to not being polite.

• The video creator's response was surprising and in the middle of the night, cracked me up, with his clapping and song.

• Okay, I reason that some women over 30 years old can still be very attractive.

• I am open-minded concerning the age of a potential wife, but at this point, I need a youthful potential partner, with a similar level of romantic experience as me.

• I am kind of Chuck Norris like, age-wise and need to slowly grow older with someone.

• At the 25 second mark, roughly, in contrast to the video, I am not necessarily looking for an 18 year old. I do not have a formal age rule.

• Re: Give them money. I like intellectual women. I like career women that earn their own money.

• From a Christian perspective, as it might be difficult for an intellectual, career woman in the Church to find a relatable man for potential marriage, I fully support a woman seeking high grades (or qualifications) and the needed degrees (or qualifications) to have her own potential career. (Again, this is clear to anyone that knows me personally)

• From the 45 second mark forward, roughly, I agree with the video creator. 'Creep you out', often is simply not being an attractive male in the female's eyes.

• Being creepy includes, the male, not following modern, western, ageist rules in regards to dating, such as an arbitrary, limited, 5 year (or very close) age difference as social rule, which is of course not biblical, whatsoever.

• That is often creepy to modern women. I know this from experience and studying romantic psychology online for about 15 years.

• He is right, a man has the courage to approach her and is often considered a creep.

• I have heard 'creepy' and 'creep' thrown around by Christian women in singles ministries online as if the men should follow these western social rules and are idiots if they do not.

• This idea of being a creep is one of the reasons many men in the modern Christian Church do not pursue a date, by the way!

• Of course many women in the Church will remain single, much of their lives, or for life, as a result.

• 'Chads' or 'Chad' (Tyrone) is what red pill philosophy and some within online psychology call the female, western ideal of men for romantic relationships, 6 foot tall at least, making six figures a year, good looking, popular.

• Intellectual women in particular, might be more likely to not chase Chad, because they need to find a man that prefers intellectual women.

• I voted lawyer...back on November 8, 2021

• At 4 minute mark, roughly, I have to agree from both personal experience and studying psychology, many women at 30 years old plus, begin to rethink their views on how attractive a potential man should be.

• At 5: 50 mark, I have to agree in general, that there is a wall for young women. 

• Generally, but not in every case, there is a decline in female, physical beauty at 30 years old and yes in some cases as he notes, even at 25 years old. (Key: cut carbs)

• I, of course, was never the ideal to start with, and so I have less to lose...(Smirk, my permanently, improved health with the decreased effects of sleep apnea with surgeries and low carb diet has me upgrading)

• Philosophically, for western, young women, it seems to me there is a tension between career with financial stability and the possibility of finding a man for marriage.

• Overall, past the 9 minute mark, I prefer a natural look for a female as opposed to medical enhancements.

• I have had plastic surgeries, as in eye lid surgeries, and rhinoplasty surgeries for sleep apnea, but these were medical requirements, more so than for vanity. 

• Post 12 minute mark, a 'beta' provider or 'beta male' is again red pill or psychological language for the non-alpha, non-Chads, that supposedly many women settle for, eventually.

• 13: 45 mark, to be clear I am not looking for the (paraphrased) youngest, hottest women.

• Again, as noted in my writing, in Christ, I am seeking, mutual, spiritual, intellectual, romantic attraction in courtship or remaining single.

• The image from roughly 15: 36 forward, is obviously not my thing, not my goal, for anyone that knows me at all.

• I reason his psychological and western societal analysis in his videos in generally excellent, although my worldview in regards to potential, romantic relationships differs.